Lament is an act of faith, not a lack of faith

Mar 03, 2026

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Prayer of lament

Do you ever feel rushed to hope? Or rush others to hope? One of the most unhelpful things to say or hear when you’re grieving is “at least.” At least, it’s not as bad as it could’ve been. At least you’re not so-and-so. At least they’re not in pain anymore. No matter how good the intentions, rushing past grief or sorrow is not good. The Bible calls these expressions of sadness ‘lamenting.’ And the Bible doesn’t hide from it. 

The writer of Psalm 42:5 says, “Why, my soul, are you downcast?” Part of growing as a follower of Jesus is bringing even your lament before God. Lament keeps faith from becoming shallow. It gives you permission to grieve. And it reveals a God who welcomes your honesty. 

Here’s your one thought today: lament is not a lack of faith, it’s an act of faith. If you need a space to grieve today, there’s a prayer waiting for you below:

A Prayer of Lament

I bring You my sadness and confusion, Jesus. 

I don’t want to rush past it

But I don’t want to stay here longer than I need to be

I’m comforted to know that You are known as the Man of Sorrows in the Bible

You know grief, sorrow, and heart ache better than I do

Please meet me here and hold me. 

Amen. 

 

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    God says this to His prophet Joel, “I will restore to you the years the swarming locust has eaten.” If you don’t know a lot about locusts, you’re not crazy. But they destroyed the crops, livelihoods, and futures of God’s people. And here God promises restoration. He promises to bring something good out of a season that surely felt wasted or ruined.

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