Love Pays Attention

Nov 04, 2026

How often do you think about yourself?

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Love pays attention

Here’s a slightly uncomfortable experiment: for the next hour, notice how often your thoughts circle back to you. 

What you need. What you want. How other people see you. What you need to get done.

That’s normal! But Jesus wants to form you into someone who can look beyond yourself. Philippians 2:4 says, “Don’t look out only for your own interests, but take an interest in others, too.” 

Without neglecting your own responsibilities or needs, do you notice when something is happening in someone else’s life? Like a meeting they’re worried about or their sick parent? Do you know when they’re having a hard week or celebrating good news?

Turn your eyes and thoughts towards someone else today. Love pays attention to what matters to someone else.

A Prayer to Look Beyond Yourself

Jesus, I need your help to lift my eyes today

I naturally think about myself a lot

But help me notice what someone else is carrying, celebrating, or needing

Holy Spirit, make me curious, present, and unhurried

Is there one person I can pay attention to today?

Amen

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